Dating how to approach women at the bar

27-Jan-2015 07:22

Hi, please don’t butt into my conversations, especially one like that. If you want to approach a group of women, try to at least come up with an original question, maybe even something like “My friends and I were debating which restaurant makes the best burger in town, what do you guys think?This technique only works when you can overhear a loud conversation that’s appropriate and you can easily segue into. These aren’t heard often, but when they are, I want to bang my head against the wall. ” When it comes to approaching women in bars the technique is simple.Obviously, that guy was a mess and here’s why everything he did was wrong: he told me he was dumb several times.Girls aren’t into insecure guys or stupid ones for that matter.It is also somewhat insulting when the guy assumes that you will be impressed by his car.Instead, ask the girl questions and wait for her to ask about you, at which point you should be honest and humble. You’re also the guy that will get mad when you date a gold digger.I’ve seen a few pick up artist websites that endorse this behavior, but please, for the love of God stop doing this.I’ve had guys insult the shoes, scarf and purse I was wearing. This is not cool and it certainly doesn’t intrigue or turn me on like some of those pick up website suggest.

I hate to burst your bubble, but if women aren’t likely to make the first move in traditional dating spheres like bars, clubs, and parties, then they certainly aren’t going to walk up to you and ask what you think about that copy of Joyce you’re reading conspicuously while glancing up at her every three seconds.

If you have any interest in meeting the women you see out and about in your daily life, then you need to make the move, plain and simple.

Thankfully, approaching women in public isn’t nearly as difficult as you might think.

But as a girl who gets hit on at bars, I gotta say that you’re doing it wrong.

I’m open to meeting someone at a bar just as much as you are, but dudes – you need to work on your approach.

I hate to burst your bubble, but if women aren’t likely to make the first move in traditional dating spheres like bars, clubs, and parties, then they certainly aren’t going to walk up to you and ask what you think about that copy of Joyce you’re reading conspicuously while glancing up at her every three seconds.

If you have any interest in meeting the women you see out and about in your daily life, then you need to make the move, plain and simple.

Thankfully, approaching women in public isn’t nearly as difficult as you might think.

But as a girl who gets hit on at bars, I gotta say that you’re doing it wrong.

I’m open to meeting someone at a bar just as much as you are, but dudes – you need to work on your approach.

He tried to impress me by saying he was in the military for five years, twice. He wanted to prove he was worth talking to, so he showed me his car and got mad when I couldn’t tell what it was.